You can make things happen in your life, even with small steps, like changing the way you introduce yourself. Even if you have a tried and true line that’s 95 percent effective, you never know what a new one will lead to. It’s a great icebreaker, and if it’s genuinely funny (though not dirty), you’ve got a good chance. But while a joke — even a stolen one — is better than sliding into someone’s inbox with a vanilla “hey,” nailing that perfect opening line is... Did you thumb yes while you were drunk, feeling lonely, curious, or bored?Do you really have the energy, emotionally or physically, to see this endeavor through to a first date, let alone some semblance of a relationship?Actually come to think of it, save the life story for when you’re on your fourth date.
So here’s the thing; some women might tell you that a simple “Hi, how are you doing? But in all honesty, unless you follow a generic message like this up with something mighty funny or mighty interesting the chances of you getting anything more than a couple of polite responses are slimmer than one of those Victoria Secret models. One of my favorite ways to open on Tinder is with something funny.Bumble, created by a former Tinder founder, has found success because its marketing campaign has attracted an elite crowd, but the thought of putting actual effort into app dating has always overwhelmed me.’s second season, viewers took their love and adoration for the show to a place made for love and adoration: dating apps.Here are 10 ideas to give you a fresh start—with a new foot in the dating door: 1. In New York, dating is notoriously difficult, with seemingly endless app options all of which promote quantity over quality.