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Charlie Stelle, have been researching the landscape and found that people over 60 represent the most rapidly growing demographic in online dating.

You can read an article about the ongoing study by clicking here.

Just because I'm on the slippery side of 45 doesn't mean it's all over for me. I have two other women I'm writing to right now and I'm not sure I can handle a third? There are no dirty socks to pick up after, but there is a downside.

Affairs is our weekly column about the current dating scene in and around Los Angeles -- and finding romance in a wired world. I signed up on the dating site Plenty of Fish last year, and while I had my doubts, I was still optimistic about finding my soul mate — otherwise, why do it at all? It's taken me a while, but I realize now that this living fantasy is one of the perks of being a self-confident woman "of a certain age," and one should embrace it like the feminist superhero that you are. In the 1990 movie "White Palace," a young James Spader moves to New York in the finale to declare his love to the much older Susan Sarandon, but in real life, would James really have done that? In Hollywood, one can dream, but in America, the jury's still out.

Now, having one of the many easy-to-use dating apps on your phone is commonplace.

Apps such as Tinder, Grindr, OKCupid, and Plenty of Fish, all connect the dating world with the tap of a finger.

It used to require setting up elaborate and detailed accounts through or one of the few other reputable websites.

It is estimated that there are about 30 million total users, with roughly 1 million unique users logging in every day.

Many of these apps do not require you to provide legitimate verification of your age or personal information.

The younger generation now has easy access to meeting complete strangers through simple apps such as these.

I joined February 4th, around 7 AM, and received a total of one vote, two winks, and six messages.

The messages were all nice, although one user messaged me three times.