Third-degree criminal sexual conduct is sexual penetration with (1) a victim under age 13 and an actor no more than 36 months older or (2) a victim age 13 to 16 and an actor more than 24 months older.These are actual quotes from people when I tell them my boyfriend is almost 14 years younger than I am.I mean, sure, there are some things that are different about dating someone who isn’t your age, but for the most part it’s really not that big of a deal. The most common reaction to the age difference is total shock, followed by the question “But how did you meet? Sometimes when you’re with him and all of his friends, you might feel a little out of place. You learn that people are rude enough to ask questions like, “But why would you date someone younger than you? Any girl who has dated a younger guy knows that other people tend to make this situation more awkward than it should be. ” Oh, I don’t know, I was trolling the local middle school and put a spell on him. ” Because I want to, and because I’m not judgmental. You realize that there’s a big double standard – most people won’t blink an eye about an older guy dating a slightly younger girl, but if it’s the other way around, watch out. The thing is, I’ve never really had a “type” and rarely have rules for the kind of guys I go out with.
It’s also important that girls advocate for what they want, whether it’s sexual or not.Also I think I’m scared to publish this while we’re still dating for fear of jinxing the dang thing. He hasn’t been doing his own thing forever, so to speak, so there’s metaphorical room for me in his life.It seems like maybe we can share life more easily, rather than me feeling like I’m tagging along in someone else’s plans.During these last six years, I tried to date and I did, albeit unsuccessfully.I tried to have sex a few times and I did, although unsatisfying.